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Meanwhile, it can ruin a man's life.
There are downsides for both genders, and it pisses me off when people don't acknowledge the problems on both sides.
Of course this gave me a horribly skewed idea of men and I felt agonizingly guilty when I even kissed my first boyfriend, much less let him touch me or anything else. I was mortified by my own body. To top it all, I was left in bewildered denial of my sexuality (I'm a lesbian) because I thought my lack of attraction to men was simply an indicator of how holy I was. Finding my boyfriend's sexual interest in me disgusting was a GOOD thing to my mind. All of this cognitive dissonance was very harmful and, in retrospect, completely absurd!
I just want to add some support to what you're saying. These sorts of mindsets aren't just offensive... they are measurably HARMFUL to women like me. I'm so glad that I've been freed from that oppressive mindset and I can say I am so much more comfortable with myself now!